DO NOT BELIEVE YOU NEED IS LOVE YOUR PARTNER, NO MORE LOVE FOR BETTER OR LEAVE YOUR HANDS THE RESPONSIBILITY OF YOUR HAPPINESS … The idea that "we need" things, people, events or certain conditions in our lives comes from our belief that we are not complete, that we, ourselves, are not qualified to be happy or achieve Hence Love whereas, in the case of relationships, we place all our hopes and expectations "on the other," as if "our Savior." Long ago I stopped believing in "the magical connection" with someone else, for that, from the perspective of A Course in Miracles, does more than provide "specialist", and if we return to the unit, it is necessary learn that everything is the same, identifying and turning from the "love or hate relationship special," which does not mean we can not live with a partner … it's all a matter of attitude, mindset. For many years I chased that virtually everyone seeks: an ideal relationship with the right person, in an ideal world, full of ideal situations. And you know what, that my many failures in this regard, they made me understand that the world, everything in general, seem to be ideal or waste, depends only on the eyes that look. So my effort now is focused on learning: learning to look at the usual same old things with new eyes, nothing more, nothing less … The "love" in which you're thinking, the couple, is that romantic love us so much harm has been done and that you worked off the true path, that of LOVE WITH CAPS. .